If you seek amy song why is this a big deal?!?

I mean i love this song i know what it means in the if you seek amy part. Shes an adult,people have made songs with the word bluntly before and shes not trying to hide the fact of the word she is trying to say. I was watching GMA this morning and some kids were singing it and the parents didnt know what they meant. thats really no ones fault bc they should be monitored on what they listened to. but like what is the big deal so it spells out **** i can name many songs that spell out **** ***** *** whatever.