One rule for one.... and another for the other?

When men sow their wild oats and add another notch to their bed posts they are seen as champion, stud, the man, but if a woman who feels liberated, and is confident and knows what she wants, and may be a little promiscuous, then she is seen as the lowest thing under the sun the rules change?... i know what i think about this, but let me know your views on this.... it's interesting and i'm curious....